Rayne

Rayne Millaray is a wild, 30-something, sex enthusiast who's been "just one of the guys" for as long a she can remember. She's been having sex since 1996, blogging about her sex life since 2005, advocating for a sex-positive society since 2008 and working in the adult industry since 2010. Her writing is published on various blogs around the web, and she currently edits SexIs Magazine, which focuses on sexuality, sex and relationships. Rayne is, without a doubt, the girl your mother warned you about. And she loves it. Any questions for her can be sent to her at: raynemillaray@gmail.com

The Real Secret to Better Sex

All of my friends follow and RT their zodiac sign on Twitter. It's so bizarre to me, because back in the day, people would make fun of you if you were into astrology. These days, it seems like everyone I know puts at least a little stock in it. And...

Maryville Rapes: Have We Learned Nothing From Steubenville?

Back in December, I wrote about a horrifying event in Steubenville, Ohio that only got worse as the media became more aware of it and the case finally went to trial. A young girl went to an end-of-summer party held by a volunteer football coach, and will probably regret it for the rest of her life...

Abuse Comes in Many Forms…and to Men Too

Last year around this time, I wrote about Breast Cancer awareness, and how it's not just something us ladies need to watch out for. While not as prevalent, men do contract and die from breast cancer. In fact, only 19 percent of women who contract breast cancer die from complications of the disease, while breast cancer claims the lives of 27 percent of the men who contract it...

Do We Need Some Sex Ed?

Did you go to the Candlebox/Hinder concert? For me it was “the Candlebox concert” because I couldn't remember who Hinder was (I have a horrible time connecting bands that formed after I left high school to their songs...something about that whole memory association thing, I think), and I didn't get a chance to refresh my memory before we went.

Street Harassment

A few days ago, M and I were driving down Nott Street in Schenectady. We were on the way home after visiting friends on Goose Hill, and I, as usual, was watching the people walking up and down the sidewalk on my side of the car. I think I like to watch the couples most...

50 Shades Gives Relationships A Bad Name

So a while back, I wrote about erotica, and how it could be used as a bedroom booster. I made some comments about 50 Shades, despite not having read it, and was called to task by readers. Well, I've read the first book. I don't hate all of it...

Rayne Reads You

Thanks to the comments, and the fan mail, and the following I've accrued on Twitter (@RayneMillaray – come hang out with me! Unless you get offended by sex talk and swearing. I say the “f word” A LOT.), there is no doubt that you're reading me...

Sexual Harassment At Rock Shows – It Happens, And It Needs To Stop

A while back, M and I went to some show at Upstate Concert Hall. I forget which one. We go to a lot. Generally speaking, when the place is packed, like it was that night, M holds our spot while I go grab beer. It's a proven fact that women have absolutely no trouble making their way to the front of the stage, whether they're hot or not, but men have trouble getting through even if they tell people

How To Buy Lingerie The Right Way

I haven't always been the lingerie type. And when I do wear lingerie, I'm picky about what kind. I have a couple fancy nightgowns, and I've got a thing for corsets, but I don't have a single matching bra and panties set. In fact, before I met M, the only piece of actual lingerie I owned was a pair of satin panties with the ass ripped out...

New Jersey Bus Driver Does Some Road Work On Himself

What's the most absurd thing you've ever seen when you were on the bus? For most of us, that list includes things like people in ridiculous outfits, party goers vomiting in the aisle, or a fight over some dude who may or may not be present at the time...

Why Are Men “Returning The Favor?”

So, there's a whole lot going on surrounding women's rights, in these united states. Some places are trying to tighten up abortion restrictions, while others are trying to do away with a woman's right to choose altogether. And still other places are trying to make it harder for women to prevent the potential need for an abortion by restricting their access to birth control...

How To Make Your Relationship Work

On my personal blog (which I'm not going to link here because it's super NSFW, and a little controversial, but you're welcome to Google me if you're interested), I'm working on a list of writing prompts that ask questions about my relationship and my sexuality ...