Rayne Millaray is a wild, 30-something, sex enthusiast who's been "just one of the guys" for as long a she can remember. She's been having sex since 1996, blogging about her sex life since 2005, advocating for a sex-positive society since 2008 and working in the adult industry since 2010. Her writing is published on various blogs around the web, and she currently edits SexIs Magazine, which focuses on sexuality, sex and relationships. Rayne is, without a doubt, the girl your mother warned you about. And she loves it. Any questions for her can be sent to her at: raynemillaray@gmail.com
Rayne
Debunking The Myths Of Female Ejaculation
The other day, this dude asked me how to get gusher stains out of his mattress.
There's a limit to just how open people will be the first time they talk to anyone (even me) about sex, and that's usually way, way over it. Hell, most people don't even knowthat some women ejaculate during sex...
Being Yourself And Love
My baby sister's taking the plunge. Some day. They're living together and there's a ring involved, yet she insists they're not engaged. But she's getting a jump start on reading up on marriage advice and planning her fairy tale wedding on Pinterest...
Women Aren’t The Only Ones Who Say No To Sex
M and I get into abnormal conversations with complete strangers. That is to say that complete strangers feel comfortable talking to us about things they normally wouldn't discuss with other complete strangers. The second they find out I work in the adult industry, and I give sex and relationship advice, they latch on like they've never had good sex in their lives...
Erotica: The Bedroom Booster?
I heard you read 50 Shades of Grey. That's cool. I haven't. But not because it's kinky. Because me and erotica don't always get along.
You're like, “What the eff, Rayne? You're all about sex, but you don't like erotica?”
I have to admit that I'm not a huge fan...
How Much Sex Is Too Much Sex?
M's kid (21 – M's a bit older than me) has a very cavalier attitude about sex. I'm not really sure where it came from. M never really talked to his kid about sex beyond the typical sexual health/reproduction chat. Nonetheless, he'll talk to us, strangers, friends about sex like we're talking about ice cream, or the weather...
Friends With Benefits – Why Not?
You are it. Not like “it” in Tag, or the kind of “it” that means you have to do some crappy task your boss created for you last night while plotting your demise. No, this kind of “it” is the kind that finds you driving the hotties home from rock shows, and gets you the best assignments at work, and returns high marks in class despite the fact that you've got absolutely no clue what you are doing..
Breast Cancer Awareness For Men – Fight Like A Girl
This month has so many causes. It's Domestic Violence Awareness Month, and LGBT History Month. National Diabetes Month, National Pizza Month, and Sarcasm Month. But the one on my mind seems like a great topic for Q103. Especially considering everyone reading either is a man or knows a man
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How To Keep The Spark Alive
One of the most asked questions on the forums and advice columns I troll is how to keep the spark alive. Not just in long term relationships, but in couples that have just begun dating, because when we're not in relationships, we fill our off time with other responsibilities...
STD Stigmas and Some Albany Area Facts on STDs
We need to talk about the side of sex that isn't fun - STDs. I'm about to ask you two of the most important questions you'll be asked today. You ready?
What Exactly is Cheating? Here’s How to Define It.
The other day, I was discussing cheating with a woman who does a lot for the online community we're building at my “real job”...which, for those not in the know, just happens to be an adult website. The woman is in a committed relationship with two men. But she, like most people, defines cheating according to her own moral compass, which swings a little wide of conservative when it comes to sex
Some Truths About the “Big O”: It’s All Relative
The other day, someone tweeted five steps to a better "o". They went like this:
1 – Do it yourself.
2 – Do it yourself.
3 – Do it yourself.
4 – Do it yourself.
5 – Do it yourself.
Mere seconds after the original tweet was posted, it flooded my timeline as other people (mostly women) retweeted it. And I just shook my head.
What’s Wrong With Hearting Lady Parts?
Let me just start out by saying I'm proud. I popped over to the Q103 tent at Qruption, last weekend, and had a chat with the lovely Jodi and Jen of the Q-tease. Turns out, some of you screwed your courage to the sticking point and got your picture taken...