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How To Make Your Relationship Work
How To Make Your Relationship Work
How To Make Your Relationship Work
On my personal blog (which I'm not going to link here because it's super NSFW, and a little controversial, but you're welcome to Google me if you're interested), I'm working on a list of writing prompts that ask questions about my relationship and my sexuality ...
Dear Everyone, Stop Stressing Out About Marriage
Dear Everyone, Stop Stressing Out About Marriage
Dear Everyone, Stop Stressing Out About Marriage
Awhile back, a friend of mine (let's call her "N" for "naive") was having trouble finding a worthy boyfriend. Part of the problem was that she was very young, and consistently went after the new, shiny fella who walked into her scene, diving headlong into head-over-heels love before taking the time to get to know him ...
How To Break Out Of A Sexual Slump
How To Break Out Of A Sexual Slump
How To Break Out Of A Sexual Slump
M and I have been in a bit of a slump. Instead of spending our free time hiking, biking, and having sex, we've been watching television and playing video games.
Is It Cool To Ask How Much Money My Date Makes?
Is It Cool To Ask How Much Money My Date Makes?
Is It Cool To Ask How Much Money My Date Makes?
After reading my article about e-dating, and the part about listing your job, a friend of mine emailed me to ask about one of the questions that is common on dating sites. It's a question that frustrates me to no end, but almost every dating site (even the ones geared toward kinky folks) gives you the option of answering it...
Five Rules To Help You Not Suck At Online Dating
Five Rules To Help You Not Suck At Online Dating
Five Rules To Help You Not Suck At Online Dating
The other day, M was iming a buddy, and he turns to me and says, “So, R's on Match.com.” “Wait...what?” I asked, incredulity tinging my voice. “Yeah. He's frustrated with his single status, and can't find a date in his wood shed, so he's signing up for a Match...
Five Golden Rules Of Sex
Five Golden Rules Of Sex
Five Golden Rules Of Sex
There are a lot of rules to sex. Some of them are tricky because they're different from person to person, like how to stimulate the g-spot. Others though...they're pretty constant. These are the five most important rules of engagement in sex...
What Not To Do If Your Partner Cheats
What Not To Do If Your Partner Cheats
What Not To Do If Your Partner Cheats
Okay, so your partner cheated. There are no ands, ifs, or buts about it. You found the evidence. You talked to the offending party. You confronted your partner. It's real, and now you have to do something about it. But what? Really, that's up to you...
The Reality Behind 50 Shades Of Gray
The Reality Behind 50 Shades Of Gray
The Reality Behind 50 Shades Of Gray
Yesterday was steak and a BJ day. Normally I'm all for it. Who doesn't like BJs? But all week I've been out of commission. So I ordered M some pizza and went to bed. In my defense, despite not feeling well, I made him steak on Tuesday, and gave him a BJ on Wednesday, so it's not like he missed out completely...
How To Deal With Breaking Up Like An Adult
How To Deal With Breaking Up Like An Adult
How To Deal With Breaking Up Like An Adult
It happened. The last straw that the two of you had to carry has broken the camel's back. The camel,  your straw, and all the pieces of your broken heart are scattered all over the ground. You don't know exactly how it happened, or even when, but as this particular argument wears on, you realize there is no going back this time...
My Significant Other Is Talking To Their Ex On Facebook, What Do I Do?
My Significant Other Is Talking To Their Ex On Facebook, What Do I Do?
My Significant Other Is Talking To Their Ex On Facebook, What Do I Do?
Your partner's spent the whole day at the computer. They get up and wander off to the restroom, or to grab a drink, and you lean over innocently to clean up their workspace. As you're picking up the rumpled paper, and wiping away the crumbs, you notice they left their Facebook messages open...
Does Condom Use Make You A Bad Person?
Does Condom Use Make You A Bad Person?
Does Condom Use Make You A Bad Person?
So, I've got a bone to pick with a certain minority within a group of like-minded people, and in particular, their opinion that birth control is bad, mmkay? I know you know who I'm talking about, and I'm very sorry if this is you. But when it comes right down to it, if I'm to be honest, I must admit that I find this opinion just a bit shortsighted, and more than a little narrow-minded...

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